Why is their so much hypocrisy among Christians?

Christians believe Adam and Eve where the first people alive. So that means that in order to keep the the human race alive, both Adam and Eve must have commuted insest. So does this mean its ok to be sexual with your daughter but not someone of the same gender? The bible also says a man who has long hair is a sinner and yet, Jesus himself had long hair. "Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?" l Corinthians 11:14 Another verse says all females must be silent in church. “Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak”-- 1 Corinthians 14:34 You aren't supposed to say pre-written prayers either. “But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.” Matthew 6:7. Another verse says you aren't allowed to judge others. You Christians are not allowed to judge the gay, pot smoking, atheist, ultra liberal hippie walking down the street, but 99 out of a 100 Christians will. Do you Christians love your family? Well, your not supposed to. "If any man come to me, and not hate his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sister, yet, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple” Luke 14:26. Oh, well maybe you don't, but you at least call you parents Mother and Father. Oops, now your a sinner. “And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven” Matthew 23:9 By now your probably planning on how to defend yourself. Oops. You just did it again. “Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or that ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on... Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, not gather into barns; yet your heavenly father feedth them. Are ye not much better than they?” --Matthew 6:25-34 & Luke 12:22-31 inclusive. You aren't even allowed to be prepared. This is why I am Agnostic.